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  • Toys aren’t “a race to the climax” they’re literally just another way you can have sex with someone. It’s crazy to me watching all these straight people freak out about toys because I find it to be deeply intimate. Even in the case of vibrators. It doesn’t feel like just the toy, it feels like the other person is granting you that pleasure. It’s a much deeper and still emotionally enriching experience to use toys with other people vs. using them alone to masturbate.

    If I’m using a toy on someone else, I feel good about making them feel good. I’m not offended that they find it pleasurable because that’s fucking ridiculous.

    And using a toy also doesn’t necessitate that you’re using it solely to get to the climax faster, that’s also kind of a bizarre claim to make. There’s a reason why they have settings. Overall, it’s ridiculous to see toys as anything other than a tool you can use to enhance sex and feel (and help your partner feel) sensations you couldn’t possibly be able to replicate without them. I basically agree that sex is much more about the process than the goal, it’s just weird to say that toys go against that rather than help enhance it, which has been my experience with them.








  • I agree, I have absolutely 0 issue with patiently leading people through a process. Even if they’re a bit confused or unsure, as long as they are honestly listening and trying, I will try my best to explain things in a way they can understand. The thing that pisses me off is when people go all learned helplessness and try to get you to do it for them instead. No, I want you to try and learn it for yourself. If it doesn’t stick, I’ll patiently guide you again. Just try. Believe me, people of any age can “get” technology or refuse to learn. It’s a mindset

    I will make an exception, and that’s when I’m dealing with people who literally cannot learn. If you have dementia or a severe learning impairment that’s a different story, usually those folks will have someone else who can learn for them though.




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    8 months ago

    As an adult I’m asking nobody if I “may” use the bathroom. I might ask, “can I use YOUR bathroom” (notably not “may”) or say “can you point me to the bathroom” because I am a human being with a right to access these facilities (Americans need not apply).

    Teachers who feel the need to get one over on a child are pieces of shit. It teaches nobody anything except “adults are awful”. Be nice to kids, you can fuck them up with something you don’t think twice about.